Listening actively is one of the most difficult skills to learn and requires a great deal of self-searching in terms your own assessment of how well you listen.
Here we are looking at how an individual feels if they are not being listened to in a positive way.
Raising awareness of how well you listen and how well you are being listened to does make you realise that you are often not being heard and maybe also you are not actually listening!
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