There are several levels of listening and it is a good idea to focus on these as you begin to raise your awareness of the importance of listening.
Are you attentive when you listen, do you show that through your body language and eye contact?
Are you able to paraphrase of accurately repeat what has been said to you?
Can you see beyond what is being said by looking for non-verbal clues that might help you to empathise more with their issue or thought processes?
Are you intuitive when you listen so that you are able to connect in a more positive way with your coachee?
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